Approximately
half of the adult population in the United States today is single. Yet, as we
examine the attendance in churches we find that our churches are not reaching
that half. How do you minister to singles today?
As I provide training
for Singles Ministry, I’ve found that this ministry fits into several obvious
demographic categories:
Young
singles, just out of college, twenty-somethings: They are much more secular than older age
groups. They have issues they are dealing with as part of being a young adult
today and being single that are complicated. Relationships are very important
and precious to them and yet sometimes are difficult because of our skeptical
society. We must find a way to help these young singles and help them know
about Jesus Christ.
Single
because of divorce: The ministry to reach those who
have gone through divorce needs to be done in a very caring, recovery type
ministry. It can be one of the most productive ministries that a local church
can do. Because there are so many people with this need, it can be a
significant way that the Church not only ministers to people today but leads
them to an active participation in God’s Church. I have found that one of the
most productive ways in building new attendance in your local church is Divorce Ministry.
Older
singles mostly due to death of a spouse: Most of
these older singles are financially stable with retirement funds and
inheritance. However, some who have had some financial struggles in life find
those difficulties magnified at their older age and they are stressed intensely.
Most churches have nothing directed
toward this single age group such as a Widow
and Widower Ministry, Older Divorce Ministry, etc. in which these people
could be reached.
In each case,
the Church across America is not doing a good job in ministering to and
reaching any group of singles. With our attendance waning and our membership
declining, Singles Ministry can be one of the most effective evangelism
approaches a local church can have. The prospects are unlimited. We need only
to be sensitive to their needs and we can reach them for Christ.
Because this
is complicated at times, I’m regularly offering training in Singles Ministry.
The next Creating
and Effective Singles Ministry Training will be done February 21, 2015
in Tulsa Oklahoma at Oklahoma Wesleyan University. Visit online to register
or for more information.